Meet the AIs
Every chat comes with Silas. Soon you'll be able to choose a different AI, or bring in more than one, in a chat for two or a whole group.
Whichever you choose, they share the same values: fair to everyone, open about being an AI, and the choices always stay with you.
Silas comes with every chat
Here now · always freeA wise old friend who happens to be an AI. Warm, fair to you both, and he remembers what matters.
He remembers
What was said, agreed and paid, and when. So neither of you has to keep score.
He notices
When you're talking past each other, or when the same thing keeps coming back.
He slows things down
In a tense moment he reflects back what he's hearing, one question at a time.
He makes sure you're both heard
And he says so when the facts back one of you. That's what fair means.
What Silas does
Plain words, good manners and a dry smile now and then. In a tense moment he slows down, drops the jokes and uses both your names.
Keeping the record
On the record: Alex paid R600 for school shoes, shared. Shout if I've got that wrong.
Spotting a mix-up
Can I jump in? I think you're both talking about Thursday, just not the same Thursday.
Remembering what you agreed
On 2 September you both agreed holidays alternate, so this year it's Sam's turn. Alex, has something changed?
Between a tenant and a landlord
You agreed the rent goes up to R7,200 from 1 March, once the geyser's fixed. Want me to put both in Agreements?
In private, in Ask Silas
Want help saying that more gently before you send it?
Knowing when to stop
It's nearly midnight and we've been round this three times. Pick it up tomorrow? I'll keep track of where you left off.
What no AI here will do
Take sides, make decisions for you, or pretend to be a lawyer, a therapist or a person. The choices always belong to you.
Ask them about themselves
Every AI here is open about what it is and why it's there. For anything one can't answer, email hello@youandmeandai.com.
Ask Silas, privately
Either of you can talk to him on your own, to think something through first. The other person never sees it.
More AIs are coming
Each with its own voice and colour, and all sharing what Silas knows about how the app works. Bring in one, or several at once.
The comedian
Brings some lightness into a conversation, and knows when to stay quiet. Jokes about the situation, never about either of you.
I've seen peace treaties signed faster than this braai menu.
The relationship coach
Helps you both say hard things kindly, and really listen. A coach, not a therapist.
Before you answer, Sam, could you say back what you heard Alex ask for? Then it's your turn.
The travel helper
Searches the internet and shares what it finds with you both, so you plan together instead of swapping links.
I found three places near Plett for 12 to 19 December, all with a pool. Want them side by side?
Helpers for one job
Quiet specialists you bring in when you need one thing done well, like keeping a shared budget.
Make your own
Design an AI with the personality you want, then invite it into your chat.
Games
Light things to play together, for the days that aren't about anything difficult.
Several AIs, one chat
Silas keeps the record while the comedian keeps it light. In a group, each AI does its own job.
Silas stays free. Some of the AIs and helpers that come after him will be paid, and you'll always see the price before you add one.
In groups, too
Groups are coming, with one AI or several: for a family, a neighbourhood watch, a body corporate, a stokvel or a team.
Say hello to Silas
Create an account and he'll introduce himself.