How it works

Set up in a minute, then talk the way you already do. Silas does the remembering.

  1. Create your account

    Your name, your email and a password of at least 10 characters. You also pick the name for your own link; sharing it is coming soon.

    youandmeandai.com/alex

  2. Start a chat

    For now, every new chat starts with us, while we test. Soon you'll share your own link, so anyone you choose can join you.

  3. Talk as usual

    Silas reads along, answers when you ask him and chips in when he's useful. You decide how much he talks. Soon you'll be able to choose a different AI, or bring in more than one.

  4. Agree things, together

    When you both say yes, a payment, a date or an agreement goes on the record with its date. Later, nobody has to dig back through the chat.

What's in a chat

Everything sits in one place: the conversation, a private line to Silas, and the record you both agreed.

The shared chat

You, the other person and Silas. It works like any chat app.

Ask Silas, in private

Think something through with him first. The other person never sees it.

Money

Who paid for what, and what the other owes for it. A claim counts once you both agree; gifts stay off.

Dates

Pickups, deadlines and plans you've settled, so the next "which Thursday?" has an answer.

Agreements

The ones you make in the chat, plus any you paste in, like a parenting plan or a partnership agreement.

Add an agreement

Paste it in, or upload a .txt or .md file. Signed PDFs and scans are coming.

Wipe it, together

One of you asks, the other agrees, and every message and the record are gone for both.

On your phone

No app store needed. Open youandmeandai.com, add it to your home screen, and it works like any other chat app, with a notification when someone replies.

A private Ask Silas reply never shows its words on your lock screen.

Silas's daily answers

While we're testing, Silas has a daily limit of answers. When he's out, he says so, and he's back the next morning.

Your own messages to each other are never limited.

What's coming

This is a working prototype, in testing. It changes most weeks. Tell Silas what you'd change and he passes it on.

Coming

Invite links

Bring in the people you want to chat with, using your own link.

Coming

More characters and helpers

Choose who sits in your chat, or add a helper for one job. See what's planned

Coming

Groups, with one AI or several

For a family, a neighbourhood watch, a body corporate, a stokvel or a team.

Coming

End-to-end encryption

The same kind of protection WhatsApp uses, along with stronger security all round.

Coming

AIs that search the internet

Look things up for you both, like places to stay for your next holiday, and share them side by side.

Ready when you are

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